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Faith, Hope and Love are "the things that last,"

Sunday, March 25, 2012

All about love


The most distinguishing mark of lasting and creative love is found in the sense of responsibility that goes with it. This is far different from the hit-and-run tactics of those who use other people for a while and then put them aside. It is a world away from those who play at loving others with glowing phrases and a mastery of manipulative arts. It is meant to last and so it imposes a telling discipline of  its own, discipline that flows from a sense of being responsible for the other in season and out. This means that the real lover is committed to the good of the other and not just satisfaction of his own need. its suggests the genuine lover wants the beloved to grow; only the counterfeit lover wants to control the other in all the aspects of life....


Good values



It was funny how my nephew and niece taught me to behave in public in two separate occasions, I was such a silly ass then.. hehehe

We were on a hospital i accompany him to the nearest drugstore to purchase antibiotics, he was so young then so i didn't let him handle the obligation, his mom and dad hospitalized because of  severe infections they got  from "double dead meat"  contaminated by fatal virus, his mom cooked for their usual meal.
While we are heading back to the room the only way to get there is to take the elevator . There are two service elevators one for emergency and the other for the guests. And because i was too tired after a long day at work and the long trip i had, i immediately rush on the emergency elev.

Nephew:  ayoko dyan sumakay
Me: why?
Nephew: that’s for emergency used only, for patients wounded or in any case
Me: ah ganun ba, Napalunok ako (napahiya ako sa kanya)without hesitation, sige doon na lang tayo a isa. Tinuruan ang matanda.

At the mall, we were strolling and window shopping i was with my kuya and his kids, i take care of my niece kasi si kuya bantay dun sa isa, as we are about to enter the shop, i didn’t notice that the line was divided into two (male and female) dumiretso lang ako while alongside with my niece holding her right hand nasa pila kami ng LALAKI, she was surprised nakalusot na kami and suddenly gently pull my hand and whispered (bakit po tayo pumasok sa male? Eh babae po tayo) napahiya ulit ako, i told her made a promise not to do it next time. (pero sa isip ko tomboy kasi tita mo kaya dun pumasok hehehe)
Shame on me! I should have taught them the right thing, but it’s the other way around i was foolish enough to behave badly (i ain't supposed to do that not with the young ones even with elder people).
 i'm in awe and impressed how these kiddos respect the rules, they know what is the diff  between right from wrong and live the life the way it should be, They are blessed with rich values, genuine characters and intelligence.
I’m a proud tita i learned from them.